Virgo places a very high priority on relationship and takes it extremely seriously. But the person who becomes involved with a Virgo will have to realize that there is more duty involved in Virgo’s feelings than there is emotional abandon. Virgo doesn’t like to lose control of any situation. So although it’s possible to have a very satisfying relationship with a person born under this sign, it’s a good idea to realize they don’t respond well to purely emotional appeals. Virgo needs to know that a relationship will produce practical returns. And to this service-oriented person, that translates to partner who will be willing to be subjected to Virgo’s improvement program. Virgo will constantly be concerned with making things as perfect as possible, and that includes the partner’s looks, personality and business dealings. As long as you don’t mind having a (very loving and thoughtful) constant caretaker telling you how to run your life, a relationship with Virgo could be a very good thing!
VIRGO WITH ARIES
It’s hard for Aries and Virgo to see eye-to-eye. To Aries, action is the solution to most problems, while to Virgo everything must be analyzed and processed as much as humanly possible. Aries is likely to find Virgo excessively critical, while Virgo will think Aries is too impulsive. Despite these differences, Aries and Virgo can still fall in love. When they do, they each need to accept that the other can help them heal some of their all-too-human flaws. In romance, Aries will win Virgo with more conventional ways of courting a partner, while Virgo will have to be open to having a “wild” experience now and then to catch Aries’ eye. Virgo will happily take on Aries as a little project, and Aries will revel in Virgo’s pampering. Sexually, Virgo wants Aries to be more refined and Aries needs Virgo to be more spontaneous. If both are willing to go the extra mile, this combination could turn out to be a successful experiment in human evolution.
VIRGO WITH TAURUS
This is an excellent combination that can last a lifetime if the two partners are considerate of one another’s feelings. The earthy energy of these two signs connects well, so they work together effectively on practical matters. In terms of love, they both have the tendency to allow the initial passion mellow out and turn into a relationship that features the kind of affection one has for a friend. This will help them to avert fights, since they will not be so guarded about their emotional sides that they are unable to express and accept one another’s needs. However, when it comes to sex, this couple’s flame can quickly be dampened by complacency on both partners’ parts. Taurus, although sensual, could stand to develop more creativity in bed, while Virgo needs a lot of stimulation to keep the desire to have sex alive. A playful attitude about their sex life will help these two sustain their relationship over the long haul.
VIRGO WITH GEMINI
This is a highly satisfying match. Gemini enjoys being challenged by Virgo’s analytical mind, while Virgo is enchanted by the stream of ideas Gemini brings into the relationship. Gemini easily becomes the perfect “little project” for Virgo to work on. Virgo can organize Gemini’s priorities without restricting Gemini. Gemini can enlighten Virgo with things to think about that Virgo wouldn’t have the time or inclination to pursue without Gemini’s prodding. Virgo is capable of bringing variety into Gemini’s life, yet Virgo’s ability to ground is useful when Gemini gets carried away by the mood or trend of the moment. Sex might be a problem for these two, in that they can both become so busy with their own personal schedules that they have difficulty finding time to be intimate. Once they find one another, though, there can be a meaningful exchange that is stimulating as well as satisfying.
VIRGO WITH CANCER
This combination can work very well together, as both have an earnest desire to take care of one another and the relationship. Cancer wants to create and maintain a rich domestic atmosphere, and Virgo wants to be of service, always working toward keeping those home fires burning. If there are fights, they might arise from Cancer’s weepy sensitivity or Virgo’s tendency to criticize. Neatness (Virgo) vs. a tendency to store things like a packrat (Cancer) could be one source of dispute between these two, so they should consider getting someone from the outside to help with the cleaning. These caring people can be very happy together, but both need to take a long deep breath before they act on their impulses. In bed, these two will be content, but Cancer will need to adjust to Virgo’s more cool and detached attitude.
VIRGO WITH LEO
With work, this could be a successful match, but there will be a lot for both of these signs to adjust to. While Leo does in truth like to give to others, it will seem to Virgo that Leo is entirely self-serving. Leo, meanwhile, will annoy Virgo by undermining Virgo’s self-esteem. The sad part is that Leo can do this without even trying. Leo’s personality is quite strong and magnetic, while Virgo is much more quiet and subtle, and this could give Virgo an inferiority complex. Both signs will have to work hard to ensure they give one another enough support, and both will have to accept that the other partner will see decision-making in a completely different way. Money is sure to be a bone of contention, because Leo would prefer to spare no expense and Virgo is a legendary bean counter. Sex could be good, but both might use it to punish one another for an out-of-bedroom slight.
VIRGO WITH VIRGO
This could make a very interesting match, but they have to work to settle on a common standard of acceptability. Otherwise, they could wage a constant war, each trying to point out to the other what flaws need to be corrected before they “prove” their devotion to this relationship. If this couple can manage to please one another to this degree, then they can have a very rewarding relationship. They both have a desire to be of service and to find new and inventive ways of making contributions to their community. These two are capable of having petty fights, but they probably wouldn’t really threaten the relationship. It’s impossible to get two Virgo people to change their minds when they decide that they’re perfect for each other, and they’ll prove that they’re right in the bedroom.
VIRGO WITH LIBRA
Virgo and Libra have a lot to offer one another, but it might take some time for them to discover that. Libra’s tendency to weigh every possible alternative each time a decision needs to be made could very quickly drive Virgo mad, and Virgo’s dismissive way to telling Libra what must be done will cause hurt feelings. Once they find that both of them possess traits that they can use to contribute to their partners’ well-being, the relationship will go quite well. One thing these two signs have in common is the ability to detach from their emotions. That means any fights that come up can be settled based on rational ideas, and that makes them easy to resolve. Sexually, this isn’t the most passionate relationship, but these two signs are capable of getting a lot of pleasure from one another.
VIRGO WITH SCORPIO
This match can be challenging, but once the individuals realize that they both have exceptionally sharp minds, things will go along smoothly. There is likely to be at least some struggle between the two about which of them should be the leader in the relationship. Scorpio will want to dominate, but Virgo will carry out a persistent quest to prove how much Scorpio needs Virgo to do things “the right way”. Scorpio is skilled at putting together strategy, and Virgo is excellent with details. The sooner this couple realizes this, they’ll be able to work together quite productively. In bed, they’ll find out that no matter who’s on top, the time they spend together will help both of them recharge their batteries.
VIRGO WITH SAGITTARIUS
The obvious differences between these once these two realize how much they have to give one another. For starters, they’re both tremendously adaptable, and this will be useful when they set out to do things together. Sagittarius moves fast and isn’t terribly concerned with whether a not a mess is left in the wake. Virgo is meticulous and will always try to create order out of chaos. What makes this work so well is their mutual admiration for traits they each could stand to develop. If they learn to work together, Virgo could emerge from the “all work and no play” mode of living and Sagittarius could be tamed long enough to appreciate the simple (but satisfying) things in life. And speaking of filling a person’s needs, these two would make a dynamic couple in bed. Sadge’s puppy dog style would be irresistible to Virgo, and the two could find many creative ways to express their appreciation.
VIRGO WITH CAPRICORN
This relationship could last a long time simply based on the fact that both of these people see life as a practical matter that must be mastered. Capricorn wants to organize, manage and achieve, while Virgo wants to make useful contributions to the couple’s efforts. If this couple fights at all, it might be because Virgo thinks Capricorn takes too much on at one time. Capricorn will also (once in awhile) become annoyed at what’s perceived as Virgo’s tendency to nit-pick. But if these two combine their abilities, they’re a team that would be hard to stop in business or in bed. Sexually, both relate well to the straightforward approach, and they both are earthy enough to immerse themselves into the sensual delights they have to offer to one another without getting bogged down in too much emotion.
VIRGO WITH AQUARIUS
This combination could be difficult because both partners are convinced they have the “right” answers for everything. When they agree, they can be contented with one another. When they are at odds, both will stick to their way of seeing things, and the fights might go on for awhile. With some patience (and maybe some occasional outside intervention), this couple can find ways to compromise on big issues. When it comes to the “small stuff”, they’re both going to have to give it a rest. To make their relationship work, this pair needs to have a steady diet of time they spend with their separate friends. These experiences can provide them with fresh topics of conversation and inject some excitement into the relationship. Sexually, these two can get it on and remain satisfied, but it they must work hard at achieving emotional intimacy.
VIRGO WITH PISCES
These two signs are meant for one another, even though they might be the last ones to figure that out. Virgo’s always looking to make someone into a “little project” to work on, and Pisces could definitely use some help getting organized. Meanwhile, Pisces can provide many creative ways for Virgo to escape the rut that results from so much concentration on the details of day-to-day life. They’ll enjoy doing things together because they will point things out to one another that add depth to every experience. The fights they have will flare up when either of them goes too far into their archetypal behavior. In this relationship, earth meets spirit, and both are focused on providing service. As long as they stick to that, their life together will have a fairy tale ending that they’ll confirm every night they spend together.